How We Use Playing-It-Safe-Moves to Cope with Anxiety

Anxiety is part of being human—but what if the way we try to get rid of it is exactly what keeps us stuck? That’s the big question at the heart of my conversation with Dr. Patricia Zurita Ona (“Dr. Z”) on the latest episode of Mind Tricks Radio (FULL TRANSCRIPT...

Jumping to Conclusions

Today’s post is about a common cognitive distortion that causes us much more grief than any of us need — Jumping to conclusions. The reason why Jumping to Conclusions can be such a problem is it can cause you to make rash or wrong decisions based on a lack...

Black and White Thinking

Today I’m talking briefly about a very common cognitive distortion that can make life for you, and the people around you hard to deal with. This is Black and White thinking, also known as Absolute thinking, All or Nothing Thinking, or dichotomous thinking. When you...

Catastrophic Thinking

Today I’m writing about a very common cognitive distortion that we all use from time to time – Catastrophic Thinking. It is a form of erroneous thinking that can cause great stress and anxiety to people. When you engage in catastrophic thinking, you’re basically...