I enjoyed spending time with Tricia Burke, LCSW and having a lively conversation with her while recording Episode 2 of Mind Tricks. Tricia is a psychotherapist in private practice in states of Washington and Hawaii.
I was impressed by Tricia’s openness about her life and experiences being an Empath – someone who is on the most extreme end of the spectrum of Highly Sensitive People (HSP). Tricia explained how Empaths deeply feel the emotions of others and have a highly tuned intuition about thoughts, feelings, and experiences of others.
I appreciated how Tricia labels her sensitivity as a “gift,” as it allows her to feel deeply and connect with people on a very profound level. She believes the purpose of Empaths is to “heal the world.” I would have to agree with Tricia, when you consider the opposite of an Empath is a Narcissist, a Sociopath, or a person who is solely motivated by self-interests at the expense of others. An HSP/Empath who is aware of the potential pitfalls and perils of his or her sensitives learns how to set appropriate boundaries and maintain the necessary self-care and allow his or her “gifts” to shine.
Tricia mentioned a few resources I wanted to share. First, she mentions the wonderful resources of Dr. Judith Orloff, a psychiatrist living in California who’s written several excellent books about Empaths. Her website is loaded with helpful information, including a 20 question self-assessment test that determines where you might fall on the Empath spectrum. Check it out: www.drjudithorloff.comTricia also mentioned Dr. Elaine Aron, a Clinical Psychologist who has researched Highly Sensitive People extensively and has a range of useful resources on her website: www.hsperson.com
I hope you enjoy listening to Episode 2 with Tricia Burke as much as I enjoyed recording it with her!
I was so inspired by the insight she had on the issues of Highly Sensitive people and those with Empathic tendencies. Tricia seemed to offer solutions and ways of healing the negative aspects as well as suggest options for people to embrace these gifts in a positive way. Thank you, for giving us a new and more hopeful perspective!
Heidi, thanks so much for the feedback and taking the time to comment! Tricia was a wonderful guest and I learned a lot from meeting with her as well. Please pass the word along to others who may benefit from listening to her interview, and check out some of the resources she recommended as well.
Aloha,
Aaron Kaplan